Marriage on the rocks? - Page 3

kiko · #31 26-01-2008, 08:16 AM

Bro

Why not buy a gift for your wife during valentine day, shop with her and then go for candle light dinner. I believe everything should be ok after that !

Schweinehund · #32 26-01-2008, 08:32 AM

Bro no offense but your marriage hardly sounds like a marriage at all! Even a kept mistress sounds like a better option. Hope you really think it through if this is what you want. Better to cut it off early before you get in too deep.

mseveninch · #33 26-01-2008, 08:58 AM

Hi bro TS - I had a similar situation like you some years back. Although we live under 1 roof but we sleep in separate room because our child need her. Due to these - I & OC slowly drifted apart and I feel frustrated whenever I need.

OC tend to reject my advance - reason - tire & no mood. Beside these - she is 4 years my senior. Because of these - I start to fuck WL / FL.

One day she ask me .......why you go to HC? She come to know it from my credit bill statement. No choice ..... I admit & own up to what I doing out there when I need. We had a stiff quarrel......and stop talking to each other for days. One night she came into my room to wake me up with a shocking oral ......... wake up call to fuck. ( Normally by 2230 hrs - I already in slumberland ).

Since then - we back to communication route & fuck each other to the fullest. Our children - sleep by themselves. Me & OC now plan to renew our marriage with a short hooneymoon....he...he...happy.

So don't loose heart and....try a little bit harder - I'm sure you can. Women need to pamper abit at all times.

Frankiestine · #34 26-01-2008, 11:39 AM

aiyah your problem nothing new...many of us married guys here have the same problem...since they not keen then it is their loss cos when they grow old and haggard who they gonna find to fuck their chee bye...they probably have to do what we are doing now...find toy boys...

Frankiestine · #35 26-01-2008, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Dump her and get a new wife.

Boz this is sinkee land you do that you gonna end up with a big hole in your pocket..

Frankiestine · #36 26-01-2008, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by obnoxious

Looking at what he has written, it doesn't look like the relationship is salvageable ...

best thing is dun salvage just leave it as it is and have your fun elsewhere..that what i am doing and will go on doing and will not stop doing....

#37 26-01-2008, 11:46 AM

So now have you learn your lesson and stop cheonging since if happen second time your marriage may really be on the rocks

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Originally Posted by mseveninch

Since then - we back to communication route & fuck each other to the fullest. Our children - sleep by themselves. Me & OC now plan to renew our marriage with a short hooneymoon....he...he...happy.

So don't loose heart and....try a little bit harder - I'm sure you can. Women need to pamper abit at all times.

Frankiestine · #38 26-01-2008, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by mseveninch

One day she ask me .......why you go to HC? One night she came into my room to wake me up with a shocking oral ......... wake up call to fuck. ( Normally by 2230 hrs - I already in slumberland ).

good for you bro some women just needs a good wake up call....

IDOL · #39 26-01-2008, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Frankiestine

best thing is dun salvage just leave it as it is and have your fun elsewhere..that what i am doing and will go on doing and will not stop doing....

Bro Frankiestine, you are indeed a monster

Hmm, like that your relationship sooner or later breakup, unless that is what you want

mseveninch · #40 26-01-2008, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by octupus

So now have you learn your lesson and stop cheonging since if happen second time your marriage may really be on the rocks

Ya............I learn the lesson but I still cheong on the side cause sometime.........you know dry spell kick in and honny. Cannot stop entirely ma. I tau chiak must know to clean....

Frankiestine · #41 27-01-2008, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by IDOL

Bro Frankiestine, you are indeed a monster

Hmm, like that your relationship sooner or later breakup, unless that is what you want

my relationship with wife more or less already half way there but who cares....she dun want to give me the sex part then the most i tey gong and have my fun outside...the sooner a woman realize the way to a man heart is through his dick the happier a marriage will be...

kiko · #42 27-01-2008, 02:10 PM

Bro : i think if the current problem u and your wife can solve it, the sex part i think will come naturally, make full use of this valentine day, and hope it will be a memorable day for u and your wife.

joew2005 · #43 27-01-2008, 04:18 PM

there is tis chinese saying:
u rather ask a couple 2 fight,but nvr ask them 2 divorce.
others r veri difficult 2 understand the problem bet a couple.
marriage & courtship r 2 diff worlds.
when u choose 2 say the vow,u shld stick 2 it.
do not take marriage as something that comes & go easily.
pls do not give up easily.

justbob · #44 27-01-2008, 08:31 PM

You need to stop wasting your time on something that is of little value to you. Plenty of fish in the sea who are far more normal and pleasant and worthy of living with for a lifetime. This is punishment.

loster · #45 27-01-2008, 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by joew2005

there is tis chinese saying:
u rather ask a couple 2 fight,but nvr ask them 2 divorce.
others r veri difficult 2 understand the problem bet a couple.
marriage & courtship r 2 diff worlds.
when u choose 2 say the vow,u shld stick 2 it.
do not take marriage as something that comes & go easily.
pls do not give up easily.

Hi Bros that has contributed to this thread,
I really thank all of you for listening to my problems. Now seems that with the weekly sex rountine, it seems better. I oso try to communicate with her daily thru online games and listen to her whenever i can.