WL life after Geylang + Meeting up in their home country

[walao]

Kampong life is good

[walao]

Originally Posted by naan1974

happy endings are always so encouraging but everyone
Should take it with pinch of salt, especially the newbies.
Not on authenticity tho but the rarity. Bliss indeed

Yes. Agree with that, take it as a pinch of salt. Not everyone has the right mindset to handle this let alone being a first timer. I agree and do not encourage. But if there is love, seize the day....but with a correct mindset to fartom the unexpected mental stress to come. Not easy to attain nirvana. Goodluck to the tikors anyway. I go pung sai liao to fertilize the land of the rising sun.

Walao

[12888]

Originally Posted by walao

Yes i agree...not everyone has the mindset of being tolerance and away from skeptism and forget the past amd.move on. Likewise on the gal's side.too. the biggest hurdle which ended well is earning trust and both say 'i do'. But also be prepared for future bickerings and paranoias. Many people says not possible to settle down with a WL, but it all depends on individuals AND ONE'S MINDSET. The stigmata of a man's thought of the nature of a WL is still pretty strong I would say. Not everyone's thinkings, fate and environment are the same. I remember reading one tikor who said willing to forsake your mum and emigrate to be with her even true love does exist? Yes...my environment allows so. My family culture does not see parents living with kids. Kids go to school alone at the age of 4 or above. My mum prefers to be alone and retired to her kampong after dad's demise and writing novels. She prefers and appreciate once in a blue moon visits which makes relationships and bonding more coehesive and respect privacy, unlike chinese culture who go for togetherness and taboo not being with parents. Lets just say, Japanese are more towards western philosophy, once you reach adulthood, you are on your own type. Moreover am not so worry, lil brother visits her once in a whule with his family since he works an expressway away from his work place and home in Nagoya Aichi ken as a design director in Toyota. Nagoya is quute closeby to Kyoto, sis visits her every weekend since she quitted her job from the states and working as an editor in a Jitpoon magazine co in Osaka, once again a 35 min car drive away. We siblings help one another to care for not so aged mum (71y.o).

Well, off and on i do experience from wifey..for eg. While on a business trip overseas, missed her calls (i do get back to her immediately when i find.out), she.will ask, which pros were you fucking just now...just tolerate and laugh it off and get the conversation back to normal. Most importantly, frequent communications. Right now am back to Kyoto and visit my mum's kampong for a week to tend on her green farm..Vid call instead with mum in the background, she will definitely shut up and put on a smile infront of her mum in law...she does gives me confidence from her side by installing her house cctv apps on my mobile. She does her homework, so must I, by frequent communication. Now with a baby in hand and regular monetary care, more stable in her mentality and us and relationship more solid. All takes time to fine tune a normal relationship.

Walao

Walao, how old are you?

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by walao

Yes i agree...not everyone has the mindset of being tolerance and away from skeptism and forget the past amd.move on. Likewise on the gal's side.too. the biggest hurdle which ended well is earning trust and both say 'i do'. But also be prepared for future bickerings and paranoias. Many people says not possible to settle down with a WL, but it all depends on individuals AND ONE'S MINDSET. The stigmata of a man's thought of the nature of a WL is still pretty strong I would say. Not everyone's thinkings, fate and environment are the same. I remember reading one tikor who said willing to forsake your mum and emigrate to be with her even true love does exist? Yes...my environment allows so. My family culture does not see parents living with kids. Kids go to school alone at the age of 4 or above. My mum prefers to be alone and retired to her kampong after dad's demise and writing novels. She prefers and appreciate once in a blue moon visits which makes relationships and bonding more coehesive and respect privacy, unlike chinese culture who go for togetherness and taboo not being with parents. Lets just say, Japanese are more towards western philosophy, once you reach adulthood, you are on your own type. Moreover am not so worry, lil brother visits her once in a whule with his family since he works an expressway away from his work place and home in Nagoya Aichi ken as a design director in Toyota. Nagoya is quute closeby to Kyoto, sis visits her every weekend since she quitted her job from the states and working as an editor in a Jitpoon magazine co in Osaka, once again a 35 min car drive away. We siblings help one another to care for not so aged mum (71y.o).

Well, off and on i do experience from wifey..for eg. While on a business trip overseas, missed her calls (i do get back to her immediately when i find.out), she.will ask, which pros were you fucking just now...just tolerate and laugh it off and get the conversation back to normal. Most importantly, frequent communications. Right now am back to Kyoto and visit my mum's kampong for a week to tend on her green farm..Vid call instead with mum in the background, she will definitely shut up and put on a smile infront of her mum in law...she does gives me confidence from her side by installing her house cctv apps on my mobile. She does her homework, so must I, by frequent communication. Now with a baby in hand and regular monetary care, more stable in her mentality and us and relationship more solid. All takes time to fine tune a normal relationship.

Walao

Bless you bro Walao for finding happiness in life. Hope both of you are always happy.

[walao]

Originally Posted by 12888

Walao, how old are you?

Very young...18 (late 40s) lol

[walao]

Originally Posted by Dignified69

Bless you bro Walao for finding happiness in life. Hope both of you are always happy.

Gum sia gum.sia...

Walao

[electronics]

How to deal with the distance?

And residency status in China if WL is from PRC?

[libido857]

Originally Posted by xsunchaserx

Many vn working ladies I knew ended up on another tour to Taiwan or Macau for Part 2 & 3 until they are in their late thirties before they settle down with a hair saloon or massage shop owner role.

Hair saloon and massage place are the norms

[Topper]

Originally Posted by walao

Very young...18 (late 40s) lol

Wah so young. Moi have to celebrate this birthday cake every year to stay young LOL:

[walao]

Originally Posted by electronics

How to deal with the distance?

And residency status in China if WL is from PRC?

Your choice.

[bradpitt968]

Most will go back, rest and then back to the market again. Unless there is a source of income.

They may have bought land, do house, buy car from the income but to continue to live their life, support their family for long term, will need to have income. This is the fact. Even if they start a business, will need time to reach the time that it will provide enough money to support them and their family.

So if you just wannt song song and enjoy for a period of time, then it will be ok. But if you are thinking of anything further, basically no $$ no talk.

[happytree123]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

Most will go back, rest and then back to the market again. Unless there is a source of income.

They may have bought land, do house, buy car from the income but to continue to live their life, support their family for long term, will need to have income. This is the fact. Even if they start a business, will need time to reach the time that it will provide enough money to support them and their family.

So if you just wannt song song and enjoy for a period of time, then it will be ok. But if you are thinking of anything further, basically no $$ no talk.

My understanding for some is they really lack financial literacy. While the goal is maximise earnings say gross earnings of $7K a month, they really can splurge on their family and themselves.

So end up, once RTC, they are not really better off. In fact, I truly believe some will end up in the same financial situation few years down the road. The GL earnings might give them a reasonable gd life in Tier 3 towns but def. not sustainable for T2 cities.

Whether they wanna get fucked again is another big question given they are already older (market value drop once hit 30 & above) and a "safe" market like Singapore is no longer open to them already.

That is at least for the China WLs I have knowledge of. They really have to grab a decent guy for financial support if they don't intend to slog it out once back home. Those have family business still okay.

[walao]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

Most will go back, rest and then back to the market again. Unless there is a source of income.

They may have bought land, do house, buy car from the income but to continue to live their life, support their family for long term, will need to have income. This is the fact. Even if they start a business, will need time to reach the time that it will provide enough money to support them and their family.

So if you just wannt song song and enjoy for a period of time, then it will be ok. But if you are thinking of anything further, basically no $$ no talk.

Yes u have your point..no money no talk. I wouldnt say 'luckily' she is an orphan, so ticked most of your stated list and saved on crowd support. Monetary stamina is the word..and good planning for rainy days to cover all and one self are essential too. People change. Not all WLs want to lead a forever WL life. They do yearn for a stable and harmonious life. They are human beings afterall, humans have emotions. Both sides have to have an open heart and move on, dont look back. Easy said than be done. But can be done. Always have an.open mindset to expect the unexpected. Whatever the opposite sex motives , are, take it as a pinch of salt.

Walao

Walao

[walao]

Originally Posted by Dignified69

Bless you bro Walao for finding happiness in life. Hope both of you are always happy.

Very happy just kena nagged for smoking in the backyard :"smoke somemore..not gonna bury you when u die of lung disease...."...

Du'h!

[Wonderwoman76]

I do happen to still keep in contact with a couple of WLs who have rtc’d.

It can be quite fun if I’m in China for work and want familiar company. The sex did change a little bit. More like lover’s sex. Still very good in a different way, like CIP becomes a norm if right after code red but no more AR (cos she said that is work).

I will have to pay for the flights and the train tickets to move them from their home town to the major cities I go for work. Basically pay for everything, hotels, meals, small gifts. I don’t really mind as the couple of girls I meet are quite nice and the sex is worth it.