A Very Lonely.and.Heartbroken Guy - Page 4

DO_YOU_BJ · #46 02-12-2011, 03:46 AM

If you dun even love yourself but dwell in self pity, who on earth is gonna even wanna get close to you.
If you know someone like that, wud you go near or wud you steer clear?
Looks isnt everything.
Confidence is!

avatar9021 · #47 04-12-2011, 09:42 PM

Go take up some muay thai classes. Make you strong and burn away all the fat and have nice muscular body.

joncheong · #48 13-12-2011, 03:56 PM

Dear TS..

Don't worry about not having enough money... Girls don't simply fall in love with someone cos he got money...if she is such a person... Then perhaps she's not worth your time...

Personality and character is much more important...

shctaw · #49 14-12-2011, 10:11 AM

Fat and Ugly?

That is precisely me.

I do not find it a hurdle; it is a gift that girl will let her guard down when come to you.

Now that I am old. You surely have an edge over me.

esssinine · #50 14-12-2011, 10:48 AM

Girls go for people who are fun . I guess that explains why some gorgeous girls go for seemingly not so good looking guys.
These guys light up the girl`s with their fun company.
People don`t always look at themselves and compare their looks against their companion.
As long as they feel good with their partners that`s what matters.

Wins88 · #51 14-12-2011, 11:15 AM

TS - it is all about you. Your attitude, confidence, and your frame of mind. Sorry to say that you have zero confidence, and even if u had a million dollars with you - YOU WILL NOT ATTRACT a single proper lady (u will of course attract PRC, VIet, and all money grubbing whores).
You need to develop some sense of confidence about yourself and feel good about yourself to start with.
Perhaps investing in yourself by getting fit and healthy in a gym is a good start.
With the right frame of mind, your income will rise as you perform better at work, and you will slowly gain a sense of self confidence and I am sure the nice girls will start to be attracted to you. Good luck.

newyorker88 · #52 15-12-2011, 04:58 PM

Dont worry, Mrs right will come someday.

If you are fat, no worry, you can diet.

Reoxy · #53 15-12-2011, 05:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wins88

Sorry to say that you have zero confidence, and even if u had a million dollars with you - YOU WILL NOT ATTRACT a single proper lady (u will of course attract PRC, VIet, and all money grubbing whores).
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I have 2 disagreements:

1. Nowadays, you would need more than a million dollars.

2. With more than a million dollars, one can even buy confidence.