Advice please!

[xnorax]

Cut long story short, this is basically what happened to me. I knew this girl for about 7 months already. Initially when i met her, i did not have any interest in her although my friends told me that she is pretty etc. However, because of some work commitment, I have quite abit of interactions with her. We used to text often but not daily. She used to tease me and I would always tease her back. However, just last week, she got to know a new guy. They texted everyday and to my suprise, she got together with him already. This is happening too fast! They knew each other for less than 2 weeks! What hurts me more is that she start to ignore me already.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by xnorax

Cut long story short, this is basically what happened to me. I knew this girl for about 7 months already. Initially when i met her, i did not have any interest in her although my friends told me that she is pretty etc. However, because of some work commitment, I have quite abit of interactions with her. We used to text often but not daily. She used to tease me and I would always tease her back. However, just last week, she got to know a new guy. They texted everyday and to my suprise, she got together with him already. This is happening too fast! They knew each other for less than 2 weeks! What hurts me more is that she start to ignore me already.

The new guy swept her off her feet. You didn't.

Time to move on.

[chenpaul]

You are early bird but end up not catching the worm. If you really like her, go all out to chase her back (provided she likes you too). Just move on if you are only bei song of losing to a newcomer.

[Wintermelontea]

What sort of advice are you expecting from a "crying over spilled milk" situation?

Sigh...ok, let me just give you one.

Be a man. If you want something (not necessary only towards winning a woman's heart), DO it! Don't KPKB after losing it without any actions.

[steelhorn]

Bro, u definitely heard of whose hands longer, who will get it first. Maybe your hands are longer, but he got something else longer than u she preferred. Joking..
By the way, he can text faster than u also is it?
Don't be disheartened bro, try to find out she's still available or not. If do, go for it. No death penalty if u can't hv her heart. But at least, you learnt something extra for the next target.
Cheers.

[steven1976]

Time is essense. Don't stop and waste the chance..

[prettymannequin]

You texted her for a few months without taking any action..?

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by prettymannequin

You texted her for a few months without taking any action..?

Same sentiments babe, Sounds like a sore loser to me.. If he really was interested & had the edge given he knew her so much in advance, he should have had ample time to take action.

Too late TS, next time if you find someone you like please act fast. Time & tide waits for no one

[NRider]

Originally Posted by fion.18

..... Time & tide waits for no one

One of my favorite quote, well put it ya ..

[demonhunter]

Like I always say , "If you don't fuck her , somebody else will "

I swear by this rule .

The only advise applicable to you is .... Move on and don't repeat the same mistake .

[siri]

Like what I told Fion sis,

不是你的 就不要~

[solarflare]

you no do anything... then other ppl take liao then now u not happy?

[LewdActs]

Originally Posted by siri

Like what I told Fion sis,

不是你的 就不要~

This is good advice

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by siri

Like what I told Fion sis,

不是你的 就不要~

Yes babe! So apt! Applies to so many of us!

Originally Posted by NRider

One of my favorite quote, well put it ya ..

Me like it too! 👍👍

[xnorax]

Thanks for your replies! erm, why i dint take any action is because i wasnt attracted to her initially. its only the last 1.5 months that i started to have a thing for her. hmm, you may call me a sore loser or what but I prefer to confirm my interest in her before I take actions. But less than 2 weeks and before I knew it, everything changes.