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Originally Posted by justanothergirl
Hi all~ Been a silent reader for quite awhile and been contemplating whether I should seek advices from fellow samsters.
A little background:
I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. Sex was amazing initially but have started to dwindle about a year ago. I'm 23, he's 25. I'm 101% sure he isn't cheating on me. Just that since he started his own business, he became quite busy and had put on a lot of weight. He used to workout everyday but none at all now.
Before, we had sex everyday or almost everyday. He could last for at least half an hour. Now when we have sex, he comes quite fast although he tries to delay it the best he can and always makes sure I come first. We can't have rough sex like before which is what I like. Sex is limited to once or twice week at best, or occasionally once a fortnight.
Would really appreciate any advices at all as I feel like I'm going crazy at times as my sex drive is quite high.
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Talk to him about it? Like how you like it when he's working out or pray hard his business will settle down soon and have more time for you? Look at it another way, maybe he's working real hard to give you both a better brighter future?