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Originally Posted by sane
The r/s ends when any of the rules is bended.
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So what are the rules of a FB arrangement? I don't recall reading any set of FB rules that is set in stone. So if there isn't any fixed rules, how do you know when the rules are bent?
For many FB couples, they operate based on a set of guidelines and these guidelines may differ from each couple. Each set of guideline is roughly based on the comfort zone of the couple.
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Originally Posted by sane
no expectation = no disappointment
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Easier said than done I feel. Why enter into a FB relationship when you have no expectation of your FB? Might as well have a string of ONS instead of having a rather regular partner (FB). If a girl chose to have a FB instead of a string of ONS, will she expect him to not have a string of ONS on top of having her as a FB? If a girl subsequently realises her FB has many other FBs/ONS, can she subsequently feel disappointed?
Girls won't anyhow choose a guy to be her FB right? Girls may have implicitly expect the chosen FB to better than a normal guy in some way. I think it's more accurate to say lower expectation = lower chances of disappointment.