[naturegreen]

I am beginning to wonder if you kiam zap. I have a sound suggestion though. Why not bring her to the cemetery with a portable hi-fi set? Remember to bring candles/lanterns along. Hang the lanterns on trees not too far, not too near, just the right distance for her to think that she is seeing things. Bring a little of alcohol, not too much, else you might begin seeing things you might not want as well. It is dim, blast the music, she confirm will cling on close to you. But whether will it be crowded thereafter, only you and her will be able to feel/see it.