[Wins88]

Just came across this thread.
I just want to share my experience with Perimenopause wife as my wife has been going thru it. We enjoyed a healthy sex life until this Perimenopause thing set in. Her constant irritation with me, always tired, moodiness coupled with job stress made my life a constant "mine field" exploration. However, due to our hot n heavy sex life before this - I began buying sex toys and whenever we get the odd chance of having sex - I used them during sex to add a dimension to our play to bring her to happy climax each and every time we had sex. Every thing I could think of such as watching porn, talking dirty etc was thrown in for good measure to ensure she got comfy with the idea of having more frequent sex. Everytime we have sex I ensured she cums and cums hard. It worked! She became more cheerful - especially a day or 2 after a night of good sex, Happier, more receptive to my advances. And even now we are thinking of going swinging but we r both old so I doubt anyone would want us hahahaha!