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Originally Posted by Dignified69
Salute to you UncleHasbeen. You are only an uncle in years and if one thinks a bit, will realise that you are no uncle at all. You can give many non-uncles more than a run for their money.
I suspect you have a great pair of ears and a very good understanding of the human condition. Otherwise you would be cheonging at Geylang like the rest of us.
But the dangers of what you do are the development of feelings in the other party. Logically this should not be the case as you are a declared man of the ring, but then logic isn't the only thing in this world.
Salute to you, though. After 1.5 decades of cheonging I would be so much happier to have a FB or FWB. But don't have the balls to take the risks. Haiz..
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Hey man thanks for the compliment.
U nailed the part on good listening skills and understanding.
This is exactly what most women want from their men and men in general.
I only discovered this in my late 20's. Then i develop this skill.
Slowly and surely i learn to be more patient and be a better listener.
There will be feelings. Especially if u spend enough time with someone u are attracted to with intimacy.
No one can escape that. But at the end of the day, i always remind myself what are my most valuable things.
And am i willing to trade all that for one person i just knew.
Just remind yourself that when your FWB/OPP ended things with u.
It is perfectly normal to feel sad but dont throw everything away because to your FWB/OPP, u are also just a FWB/OPP to them.
Yes there are beautiful endings too i know but i dont need those.
I am very happy with my life and all these peripheral happenings
There are risks in having FWB/OPP.
But this can be avoided if u go in with your head first and not the other.