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Originally Posted by ddae44
Great analysis! Also to add, don’t have to worry about the MLs, I have seen almost all of them having a few bros taking care of them, fetching them up and down, going out for supper, durians. We cannot control how others use their money, but we can control our own. Sometimes I just benefit from the extra things the MLs got, so no complaints , hahaha
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Totally agree. The thing is if we start to feel imbalance/jealousy brewing seeing/hearing our favourite ML being well doted, that is the tell-tale sign that we have invested emotions that shouldn't be present in this type of transactional companionship. Best to stop going to that ML or drastically reduce visit frequency. Else if sink too deep it's a world of emotional and financial hurt awaiting. We are all human, happens to most of us once a while be it seasoned or newbie. Gotta always remind ourselves once they RTC usually what awaits us are blanked WeChat accounts, unless she intends to come back so keep the "bond" alive. Even for those whom RTC for good and keep her WeChat alive with us, how many of us can really say we have a genuine friendship with them? Some may beg to differ but not gonna debate on that lah
