[Blackenrose]

Originally Posted by koitea

Each of us would have different way of defining what is cheating or the threshold of falling into cheating case. Say you get to know an attractive co-worker of opposite gender. Is texting him/her like a soulmate considered cheating? Is having frequent late night 1to1 chillout drinks with him/her and some light physical touches on hands/shoulders considered cheating? Not to mention if sex is involved, but if this is only a ONS with a stranger and no feelings are involved?

Let's be frank, besides living the social norm of getting married/good career/becoming good homemaker etc, most (if not all) of us here joined this forum for common reason. We would like to escape the boring/monotonous life, to seek out something exciting and to fulfill the inner hidden desire that was neglected.

IMHO, if we do decide to go ahead in fulfilling that desire elsewhere other then with your other half, then we should at least do so with responsibility to prevent/minimize hurting other half's feeling, covering your tracks. More importantly, always remember that your other half/family needs you and never neglect them.

Very well said. Good advise