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Originally Posted by justwanadoit
Hi , been a Christian but still Chiong. I feel guilty and very weak to stop calling cheekon or meet women for FB activities. How ah? I in church like normal good guy but deep down feel I jialad. I pray everyday God to help me. I read bible everyday for strength.but still fail.Any bros in same situation as me? Why I bring topic here? Bcos i know when it is darkest , that is where light need to shine . I need Jesus strength and help most. Only Jesus can help me and strengthen me.
Hope by writing this we can support each other to overcome temptations
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God created you. He knows you have a tendency to go "chiong". Does this mean He is ok with your illicit ECAs? Or is this a test to see if you can prevail against temptation? Nobody knows for sure. So the best you can do is to listen to what your conscience tells you.
I suppose you feel that your actions are inherently wrong, which was why you started this thread in the first place. On my end however, I have a personal belief that God is not the kinda Bro who would purposely set us up for failure. You are giving yourself a hard time, but ask yourself this question - are you harming anyone else because of your hobby? If not, maybe it is ok for us to indulge occasionally in worldly pleasures? As long as it is taken in moderation? I mean, God created all these things after all right?
Of course, this only applies if you are single. If you are married, you should not be committing adultery. That would be where I draw the line.
I hope you can come to terms with your guilt. Remember - to err is human, to forgive divine. If you sincerely seek forgiveness, I don't think God will hold it against you.
Take care and God Bless.