Success Stories of matching a Sugar Babe/Daddy here?
 

Just want to share my own journey of finding a Sugar Babe and keen to learn if there are any other "inspiring success stories" from other forum members.

Like many other forum members, I started on my journey of finding a Sugar Babe here in this discussion forum.

I was excited when I 1st came across this section of the forum, as over the years I'm always here to scan through the FL that meets my desire/fantasy and book a session with OKT.

These sessions are like blind gift bags, you don't know what to expect until you see them in person and get in bed with them.
I do have my fair share of hit and misses over the years.

Then something struck me, since I'm spending a low 5 digit per year visiting FL, might as well look for a long term Sugar Babe that will enjoy the session together with me and form a mutual bond / understanding of each other's liking (on bed).

I started to embark on my journey to look for a Sugar Babe late last year with much enthusiasm.

Only to realise to my dismay it's tougher than I've imagine.
I've posted my Ad for SB in Craiglist, here in this Forum, other Adult discussion forums.
Responded to posting by female forum members looking for Sugar Daddy.. Etc.
Received tons of enquiry, Spams, proposal, borrowing money.
Takes effort to filter them and managed to meet 3 potential babes in person.

I will skip the details of meet up locations and descriptions of these 3 babes to avoid any link to anyone involved.

Couldn't really click with any of them, lack of chemistry, spark and timing of their school / work schedule doesn't really match.

Some of the female forum members are asking for monthly maintenance fee that I couldn't afford or I failed to meet their criteria(s).

Until recently, I responded to a female member here in this forum, meet up with her in town, and decided on the spot we could just be the perfect SD/SB for each other.

During our meet up, she also shared her side of stories on her encounters and meeting session with potential SD.
Some proposed a trial session to check if they have "chemistry" on bed, some offered to book her for a single session only, some offered to try out for a week / month.
Which at the end of the day, doesn't meet her objective of long term SD relationship.

So she was pleasantly surprised when I told her I don't need a trial session and will commit to maintain her for 1 year minimum.

So we set a date/time for our 1st date and parted our ways during a short meet up over coffee.

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Good that you found someone! Am still looking for the one!

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Nice write up bro, camp here for continuation. :)

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Have you found a SB yet? Hit me up if not ;)

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Zilch ..... Disappointing ...... One who had very nice eyes and met criteria .... Alas ... Not meant to be ..... :(

gm

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On the day of our appointment, my mind is pre-occupied, filled with excitement of meeting up my new found Sugar Babe later in the evening of the day. I couldn't focus on work and spend bulk of the day imagining the chain of events about to happen.

Looking at the pic in her Whatsapp profile, I can't stop giggling to myself and secretly smiling inside that I've found a rare GEM that might just be the one who will rock my world. (If you get the drift..hehe..)

The intensity of my excitement starts to build up as the clock ticks closer to our appointment time.

Just before I leave office for the day, 1 hour before our date, I received a message from her informing me she got something urgent to attend last minute and couldn't meet me.

My heart really sank when I read this message, probably due to the pent up excitement within me.
I composed myself and gentlemanly replied to her to take care of the matter and we can arrange another appointment when time permits.

I went back to office to clear up some work since I've been sitting on them the whole day.

Then I start to wonder if she has "chicken out" on our private agreement since it's her 1st time in such arrangement?

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Very nice to see a story from a SD point of view... Looking forward to the next update ;)

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Our 1st Date:

So after the last minute cancellation, I start to doubt if she is still serious about our SD/SB arrangement.

Nonetheless, we proceed to fix another date.
This time round I wasn't as excited, probably hoping I won't feel disappointed just in case she backed out last minute.

The day when on without much fuss, in fact I was so engrossed with work until I realised when it's time to knock off and I'm going to be late for our appointment.

I quickly pack my stuff, text her to inform I will be late for 15mins.

Rushed to ATM to withdraw Cash, 7-11 to buy protection and make my way down to our designated rendezvous location in double quick time!

Upon arriving, I'm relived to see her sitting at the corner of the building smoking, I joined her with a stick and apologized for being late.

We proceeded walking to the hotel after our cig and I was so nervous that I pass the staff a wrong card instead of my ID.

We were both giggling in the lift for the blunder I've made earlier at the check in counter. That lighten up the mood.

Once in the room, we settled down and proceeded to shower, she was still shy and using her arm to cover her boobs.

She did offer to wash my back while in the shower, which was nice :-)

I will skip the details of action on bed as this is not a FR, but she was impressed at the end of the deed with my stamina and mentioned none of her ex(s), who are much younger than me can last that long.

She was still nervous afterwards, still shaking abit and still using her arm to cover her boobs, so cute.
She was worried that she might meet some pervert or creepy guy who might beat her up or force her to do something funny.

I assured her I'm not pervert and got more to lose than her if I'm being found out.

Checked out and proceeded to a cosy restaurant opposite for a nice meal and also chat with her to find out more about her interest and hobby.

We were chatting like long lost friend and feel that we click both on bed and intellectually.

After sending her back, I was enjoying the process of reminisce the events and the chat.

I'm just glad that I've finally found "The One" for myself. And she's a keeper

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After our 1st Date, we managed to meet up for another 3 times over 2 weeks.

Hotel is always on the agenda before or after dinner.

On our 4th date, she was feeling abit down due to some personal event back home, determined to cheer her up and make her forget about the bad memory, I worked extra hard on bed that day, bringing her to Heaven with the Big O again and again.

During her last O for the night, she was literally screaming and in spasm after she hit her O, something she has never experienced before in her past.

Sweat beads were falling from my forehead onto her body after working hard, pushing to my physical limits, I was panting so hard and could hear my heart beat in my ear. Exhausted but mission accomplished.

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I was so looking forward to our next date since the last high of our private session only to know she is having her time of the month.

So I asked her for suggestion and she wanted to catch a movie.

We fixed a time yesterday to catch a movie, I text her in the afternoon, didn't hear from her until 2 hours later / 30mins before show starts that she is engaged and will be late.

I replied it's ok and if she's still available to catch up... Didn't hear from her until 30mins later.

As I was trying to set a time to pick her up, she is not responding, I can only wait patiently.

1 hour has passed, I started to get frustrated waiting, text her again and she said getting ready.

So I proceeded to pick her up and waited another 20 mins at the void deck.

I asked her why she seems so pro-occupied today and distanced, she said it's nothing and we proceeded to cinema.

Throughout the period she's with me, she is always texting on her phone and I can sense she can't wait for the show to end.

I didn't like this feeling, like she is physically here watching a movie with me but her soul is elsewhere.
Like I'm taken for granted.

I send her home after our movie and feeling empty while on my way home.

Well I'm not asking for her to fall in love with me but at least act the part and provide abit of GFE and focus while with me.

Appreciate if Bro/Sis can enlighten me:

1) Any suggestion on activities with your SB when they're having PMS?
2) Should I share my thoughts with her or just brush it off as she's having her PMS?

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TS, not sure if u know that u're in the makings of "matters of the heart".

1. She unhappy so u service her to ur fullest extent.
2. U wondering if u should share ur thoughts etc.

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Saying it, and showing it, are 2 separate matter. If she doesn't show it, u are not going to feel it. If u don't feel it, then it's no different from a paid arrangement right? When a lady truly have feelings for a guy.. u will really feel it.

May I suggest that u discuss with her.. her future plans.. and how u fit into the picture.

A SB-SD relationship is not just about a regular paid thing, it should be about taking care like a family member.

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SB should always be giving u her full attention since you are paying for it, still have to tolerate her mood swings? :confused:

If that's the case, just change SB. :cool:

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1) Dun do anything :p
2) Her tardiness in response & pre-occupation with text msgs etc do not seem to be due to 'that time of the month', based on my understanding of PMS :D
Since this is only your 4th date, something's not quite right and it would be better to clear it up before carrying on ;)

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Even if a gal is having her menses, she will still feel happy and chirpy to someone that she like and if she feel comfortable with u, she still can have sex with u. Some women feel particularly horny when having their period.

She might have someone out there or she is not into you, just forcing herself to earn this $$$$.

In this case, do what/go where is also like bored/dread to her.

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Appreciate your input guys, will straighten things out with her before continuing.

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This answer really subjective as different gal will experience different kind of PMS..
1. Since i usually experience PMS before the red lamp come, I'll be happy to enjoy some lazy day.. Like just chilling in cafe.. But if this PMS of yours referring to period cramps, then a nice cuddle time in bed would be great.. U two can have some light to heavy petting and maybe she will bj u, if she want to though..
2. If you planned to have a long term sugar time with her, you should talk to her. Its kinda wasted if u paid for her companionship, but get nothing at all.

Agreed with sane gor gor.. Even I'm tired, I'll try to entertain my fb when I'm with him. Either it with cuddling or snuggled to him, giving him small pecks when he's watching tv or play with his gadgets.. :D
If she didn't bother to entertain you, that's probably because she's not interested or lose mood :)

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It's quite obvious that the girl is pre-occupied with something else. And the whole period thing may not even be true in the first place. My 1st guess would be she found a better guy or richer guy who is wooing her now. And she was probably out with him before she met you.


Maybe I'm too cynical and maybe I'm right. Up to you to decipher.

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I think most likely u r right. :D

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base on ur previous u shd hv the experience but seems like no...

anything involve $$$ can be true ??? dat's BUSINESS ....


I dunno wat u r trying to imply or izit dat u r juz trying to get ppl attention... u can do ur own business and at the at of 33.... still lidat...

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Ah Lau, pang chance abit mah. Mai pitchar lobang

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ha bro... hosei bo..

Bo lah, not bo pang chance la... juz that u can see lah.. kinda home made story leh,,, char bor read liao maybe got feel lah.. but 阿佬 read liao... bo siang feel leh...

anything involve $$$ one wat we can expect tio bo especially human.

u buy a LV bag and pasat bag... got different bo ???

moreover he stated clearly he had once before and should be able to handle and accept such kind of issues. Dun sau SB, even GF or wife oso same... got this kind of problem..

so wat is the point is ask around here ???

Re: Success Stories of matching a Sugar Babe/Daddy here?
 

Ah lau bo beh zao!!!!!!!
Si bei tok kong!!!!!!!!!! :)

gm

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No lah bro.. anyway kumsia.

阿佬 know TS put in effort to write something but somehow this is the wrong place to write story.

阿佬 juz feel dat TS is trying to tell something.... or should say HINT something... in a way dat can get gals attention and sametime with the support from guys here. Nvr say it's wrong but juz feel is a bit " xia jian " or " bo standard lo if it's really the case.

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Thanks for all the Feedbacks and suggestions, had a clear the air talk and situation is so much better now.

Not seeking to gain anything as some suggested, got better things to focus in life.

Preparing for my trip this weekend with my babe.

Just trying to pen the memory for myself.

Enjoy life while you can bro & sis, you'll never know which second might be your last on Earth. Cheers!

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lol, no wonder you chose your nick as such, kinda suits your thinking.

Enjoy life and die cock standing?!? :p

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a friend had a sugar daddy before and got 2000 per month. they had good relationship for a few months until everything gone sour. it was good that she able to save enough for her to last. now she back looking for one but i dont think she will be that okay anymore.

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Agree. TS do take note. It doesn't mean she has only one SD..just stating maybe.

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Do you know the gist of how it turned sour? Perhaps you could share a little so that bros here who are SDs/potential SDs can all learn from it? :p

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Hi bro,

Why you said as if like you being dump by your girlfriend? She is your sugarbabe. You paid for all the gfe, sex and companionship. Dont paid her and starve her if she dont treat you well. When you paid, you should enjoy and not see her mood.
If you so soft heart then you bound to die in her hands. They will exploit you whenever they can, you are only maybe one of the guy who sponsor them money only.